Learn To Approach Any Woman
Learn To Approach Any Woman
by Joseph Matthews
The single most important skill every man should have is
knowing how to approach women, because if you don't know how
to do this, you're going to be at a serious disadvantage
when it comes to meeting your dream girl...
The way you approach a girl can make or break the rest of
your pickup. Here are some tips for approaching women that
will help ensure your success!
Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was
the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you
tapped her on the shoulder?
Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this
is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the
right way! Once you've "blown it" with a girl, it is
extremely hard to recover.
It is vitally important to make sure when approaching women,
that you do so in a NON-TREATENING way and that you don't
telegraph your interest in the woman you're approaching too
early.
This is known as "coming in under the radar."
Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just
REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up
on.
Most men don't realize how annoying it can be for women to
constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big
time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just
don't want to deal with yet "another pick-up attempt."
Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how
to do it RIGHT.
I guess the big question is - what's the right way to
approach a woman?
First - YOU MUST ACT FAST.
Waiting too long before you approach a woman will give you a
chance to talk yourself out of meeting her. You need to
overcome your fear and approach quickly when the opportunity
presents itself.
Next, know before-hand what you're going to say. This makes
the act of approaching women so much easier, because you
don't have to waste time thinking of something to talk about
before you approach.
So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in
these situations is probably a good idea.
But I'm not talking about the "Hey, nice shoes, what to have
sex?" type line. The point is to be NON-THREATENING,
remember?
A good pick up line is something that will start an innocent
conversation with the girl you're approaching. Examples of a
good line would be to ask her opinion on something and then
continue the conversation by asking more questions about her
opinion.
An important tip you should be aware of is to always
approach a woman at an angle instead of charging towards her
like you're going to war! When you approach at an angle,
it's much less confrontational and you're going to
subconsciously put the woman more at ease than if you
approached her head-on.
Remember this golden rule of pick-up: Attraction can only
happen when the girl is COMFORTABLE with you! Because of
this, it is also vitally important that YOU feel comfortable
when approaching women.
If you feel uncomfortable approaching women, the best way to
build your comfort level is to go out and practice meeting
as many women as you can until you GET comfortable with it!
Simply reading about meeting women or studying techniques is
not going to help you get good at approaching women. If you
want real success, you actually have to go out in the real
world and meet lots of women so you can build your
experience level. And the cool thing is - the more you do
it, the easier it gets!
If you're worried about being rejected, just look at it as a
game. The ONLY thing you're doing is approaching women.
You're not asking her out, you're not trying to get her into
bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of
conversation.
That's all!
Make it a game by seeing how many girls you can talk to in
one day, and then try and beat your score.
The last thing you want to remember is always use a "time
constraint" when approaching a woman. This is very easy to
do - just tell her right off the bat that you're not going
to be long because you have to get back to what you were
doing.
Time constraints let the girl you're talking to know that
you're not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will
be a quick conversation. Because of this, she'll be more
willing to engage in your talk.
The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and
is going well, she'll forget that you used a time
constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you
want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the
approach easier in the beginning.
In the world of dating, it all boils down to a numbers game.
The more women you meet, the better your chances of finding
your soul mate.
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