Women and Relationships
When you can tell the signs that a woman is not really into you.
Men have you ever been in a relationship with a woman and she's not really showing you any real affection whatsoever, but when you walk down the street with her she constantly looks at other guys. Well that only means that she's not into you at all and she's just pretending just to either get something out the deal or what you can give her financially. But, if she loves holding your hand while walking together and she gives you her full attention, well that only means that she is really into you and would love to spend a lot of time with you.
I personally know when I'm not into a guy just by what I would do so I would basically make up so many excuses just to get away from him.
The excuses that women give to men when they're not into him and those excuses are:
-I'm too tired
-I have to get up really early so you can't stay over.
-I have my period, I'm not getting turned on and I don't want to kiss you or have sex.
-I have to go somewhere but I have to go alone because I've got to handle some business.
-It's time for you to go home, what are you getting into later (meaning I'm having company soon with another date and I don't want to get caught with you.)
-I have to wash my hair, so today wouldn't be a good day at all. which is a very popular excuse.
-Oh, I'll call you when I get a chance or just pick a fight to get rid of him.
Know this: Some women have ego's like a man and then start to act like them in relationships. But we might just do this to push the man away or to just dump them cause we're not that into them like they think we are. Please men do it to us all the time, so why can't we do the same. I think the way they have a movie called he's just not that into you, they should have a movie called she's just not that into you and all the men should go see it as well.
My friend quoted that the only way that she wouldn't be into a man is if the man is selfish, but she really likes to have a man who can reciprocate, and if they can't, it's a turn off and it goes on with the whole honesty thing and no communication and what they want in a relationship and sometimes the man may want to, but really don't want to. If she's not into him, she'll tell him straight up that she doesn't want to be with him by showing her actions that she doesn't really like him. Like an example, she happened to meet a guy who knew her ex, and she simply said that she literally made him cry over the phone by saying that he was laime, possessive, and he ended up transferring to different colleges to be all underneath her and if she feels that a man is trying to control her then that's when she would have to call it quits. so no she wouldn't want to be with him and really let him know that she really isn't into him.
So when it comes to women and relationships, men will you be able to tell the signs that she's not that into you or will you keep going on knowing that you'll get rejected.
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